You are still single or single again. How do you get what you want from dating?
Dating can be an exciting adventure. It is a chance to meet and go out with interesting and attractive people. A time to try new restaurants while having a reason to dress up and show how smart, witty and charming you can be. At times, dating does come with a downside. More often than not, dates do not turn out as we dreamed, they would. Dating has been compared to one job interview after another where both parties are doing the interviewing. The aim of the “interview” is so each person can assess the other’s suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a future spouse. Just as an employer can’t hire everyone who applies for a job, you can’t and wouldn’t want to marry everyone you date. So how can you get the most from your dating experiences?
Are you still single?
How do you stay positive after dating for so many years? Do you feel like all the “good” ones are taken? Have you been wondering why you attract people that you do not like? Or do you find that once someone is into you, the attraction you felt is gone? Are you making dating mistakes that stand in the way of you finding the right person or keeping the right person after finding him/her? Sometimes people date for the wrong reasons or use the wrong approaches. Together, we can transform your approach by amplifying the ways that work and modifying the ones that don’t. Or perhaps dating isn’t working because there are ways you need to grow in order to become more available to getting close to someone? If you have been dating for years without the desired results maybe it is time to get some creative help.
Are you single again?
Life after divorce, the end of a long-term relationship, death of a spouse are all life transitions that might put you back into the world of dating. How do you get started after being in a relationship for so many years? How do you adjust to all of the changes in the dating world? Do you feel like you are too old to date again? Are you worried that men/women will expect sex too soon in the relationship? The protocols and practices of dating have changed since your last date and you need some guidance on how to proceed on this new journey of dating.
If you are finding dating to be a challenging time in your life, I can help. Imagine what your dating life would look like if you were able to feel more confident, break negative dating patterns and meet the right person.
As Your Relationship Expert, we will collaborate and gain an understanding of how we can lessen your dating anxiety, change some of your dating patterns and obtain a higher level of satisfaction in your dating life. It is time to build an awareness that will empower you with the self-confidence you need to get the results you desire. Contact me today and let’s get started on working on your dating goals. Now is the time to get on the path of dating with less stress and more success!